And family contracts were not done without their presence and approval.

没有他们的存在和批准，家庭合同就不会完成。

But family contracts should only be written after you've done that.

但是家庭合同只能在你完成之后才能写。

Middle-class families contract with a puller to take a child to school and pick him up; the puller essentially becomes a family retainer.

中产阶级家庭与拉车人签约， 送孩子上学并接他；拉马者实质上变成了家庭佣人。