Identifying a need, figuring out who might fill that need, and then making a phone call to ask is light-years beyond your grieving friend's energy level, capacity, or interest.

确定一个需求，想出谁可以填补这个需求，然后给朋友打电话，这远远超出了你悲伤的朋友的能量水平、能力或兴趣。