When I asked Mariska to marry me, I had never asked anyone else before, Peter says.

“当我向玛丽丝卡求婚时，我从来没有向任何人求婚过，”彼得说。

Then at Mariska's 40th-birthday party, I saw her with all the people that she loved around her, he recalls.

然后“在玛丽丝卡的40岁生日聚会上，我看到她和她爱的人在一起，”他回忆道。

And all his kids are going to Ivy League schools, Mariska adds.

“他所有的孩子都要上常春藤盟校，”玛丽丝卡补充道。

It's not that we don't fight, says Mariska. Take, for example, the kitchen renovation they are currently undertaking.

“并不是说我们没有争执，”玛丽丝卡说。以他们目前正在进行的厨房改造为例。

Even after filming had stopped, Peter found himself drawn back to the set, and specifically to Mariska.

即使在拍摄结束后，彼得还是发现自己被吸引回了片场，尤其受玛丽丝卡的吸引。

The pair wed in Santa Barbara in 2004; two years into their married life, Mariska's father died from multiple myeloma at 80.

两人于2004年在圣巴巴拉结婚；婚后两年，玛丽丝卡的父亲死于多发性骨髓瘤，享年80岁。

Mariska, 55, explains: I just think life is already hard-there's going to be challenges and knockdowns every day.

“我只是觉得生活已经很艰难了——每天都会有挑战和挫折。

Actually, Mariska says, she doesn't cook. Ever. And when Peter is praising her, she doesn't hesitate to have some fun with him.

玛丽丝卡说，事实上她不做饭。从不做饭。当彼得表扬她时，她毫不犹豫地和他一起玩。

You really see what somebody is made of when they have to step up and take care of you. Mariska gave birth to August in 2006.

当一个人不得不站出来照顾你的时候，你就会真正明白他是什么样的人。”玛丽丝卡在2006年生了奥古斯特。

Beautiful photos of the couple's three children are everywhere, along with trays of Hungarian porcelain-a nod to Mariska's heritage-laden with apricots and cherries.

12岁的奥古斯特、8岁的阿马亚和7岁的安德鲁，他们的漂亮照片随处可见，还有装满杏子和樱桃的匈牙利瓷盘——这是对玛丽丝卡传统的致敬。

This is a more subdued version of 1960s mod makeup trends, especially in comparison to her Mariska Veres-inspired floating eyeliner look from the depth of her destructive spiral when she returns from Paris.

这是 1960 年代现代化妆趋势的一个更加柔和的版本，尤其是与她从巴黎返回时从破坏性螺旋深处的 Mariska Veres 启发的浮动眼线妆容相比。

There are many eye-catching features in Mariska Hargitay and Peter Hermann's New York City home. There are dazzling views that stretch in all four directions. Magical sunsets flood the airy rooms with golden light.

玛丽丝卡·哈吉塔伊和彼得·赫尔曼在纽约的家有许多引人注目的特点。令人眼花缭乱的景色向四面八方延伸。神奇的落日将金色的阳光洒在通风的房间里。

Nearly two decades later, they are so attuned to each other that when Mariska suddenly furrows her brow, Peter quickly says Bless you seconds before she actually sneezes. Their banter is easy and filled with good-natured ribbing.

将近二十年后，他们彼此十分协调，玛丽丝卡突然皱起眉头时，彼得在她打喷嚏前几秒钟迅速地说了声“上帝保佑你”。他们的玩笑很轻松，充满善意的说笑。

Mariska has only one minor quibble. But, see, that's why now, every 5 or 10 years when I ask Peter if I can renew our vows, he says the same thing- I say no, Peter cuts in. I meant it the first time.

玛丽丝卡只有一个小问题。“但是，你看，这就是为什么现在，每隔5年或10年，当我问彼得我是否可以重温我们的誓言时，他都会说同样的话——”“我说不，”彼得插嘴说。“我第一次是认真的。”