" You must hush! You are beside yourself! Not want a baby? Why every woman wants —"

" " 你给我住嘴！你疯了！不要孩子？每个女人都要-" " 不！不！你是要孩子的。

But to be beside yourself means to be affected by a strong, usually negative emotion, like anger or sadness.

但" to be beside yourself" 意思是被一种强烈的情绪所影响，通常指消极的情绪，像愤怒或者悲伤。

Often when somebody dies, you become " beside yourself" with grief.

通常当有人去世时，你会因悲伤而“发狂”。

You can also be " beside yourself" .

您也可以“发狂”。

" To be beside yourself, " then, means to feel a very strong emotion.

那么“Be by yourself”的意思是感受到一种非常强烈的情绪。

On the other hand, you can be " beside yourself" with joy.

另一方面，你可以快乐地“发狂”。

Its effect will be felt by others beside yourself.

它的效果会被你旁边的其他人感受到。

But " to be beside yourself" means to be very emotional about something, either in anger or in happiness.

但是“be by yourself” 的意思是对某事非常情绪化，无论是愤怒还是高兴。

It means, when you're " beside yourself" , it means you have such a strong emotion that you lose control of yourself.

这意味着，当你“失控”时，意味着你有一种强烈的情绪，以至于你失去了对自己的控制。

Maybe somebody throws you a really, really good surprise birthday party, and you're so touched, that you're just so happy you're " beside yourself" with joy.

也许有人为你举办了一场非常非常棒的惊喜生日派对，你非常感动， 你非常高兴， 以至于“高兴得无法自拔” 。