People with the avoider-type love style often come off as distant or unengaged.

回避型的人通常表现得疏远或不投入。

We saw that large group activities left most of the residents unengaged...

我们知道集体活动会让大部分病人觉得无所事事。

If we lean back or if we cross our arms, these are signals of being closed, unhappy, unengaged, or uncaring.

如果我们向后靠或者交叉双臂，这些都是封闭的、不快乐的、不投入的或漠不关心的信号。

It is true, Lydgate had the counter-idea of remaining unengaged; but this was a mere negative, a shadow cast by other resolves which themselves were capable of shrinking.

的确，利德盖特有保持不参与的相反想法。但这仅仅是消极的，是其他能够缩小的决心投下的阴影。